May is Lupus Awareness Month, and for me, this month holds a special meaning. This journey started not with me—but with my sister, Rebecca Kelley (Lang).
In 2009, Rebecca was diagnosed with Lupus after years of unexplained pain. Despite hurting every single day, she kept pushing forward. Her strength inspired me. I would sit watching her—aching inside—not knowing what I could do. Talking was hard for me; I’ve struggled with social anxiety for years, and I didn’t know how to advocate out loud.
So, I started speaking with my hands instead.
I taught myself how to sew. I made aprons, pillows, throws—whatever my heart could shape, I gave to my sister as gifts of comfort and strength. That small act of love soon turned into a mission. As I learned more about Lupus, I realized just how little it was being talked about—especially in the Black community.
What is Lupus?
Lupus is a chronic autoimmune disease where the body’s immune system attacks its own tissues and organs. It can affect the skin, joints, kidneys, brain, and more. Symptoms can vary—extreme fatigue, joint pain, rashes, and even serious complications with major organs. It’s often hard to diagnose, and sometimes people suffer for years before finally getting answers.
Lupus affects African American women more than any other group, but the lack of awareness in our community means many don’t know they even have it. Men and people of all backgrounds can develop Lupus too—but it’s not talked about enough. And oftentimes, people don’t find out what it is until it’s affected their lives deeply.
My Journey With Chronic Illness & Mental Health
As I walked beside my sister, I became sick myself. I battled my own health struggles and almost lost my mind in the process. But God turned my pain into purpose. That’s when I knew—I wasn’t just creating for Rebecca anymore—I was creating for every warrior like her.
From aprons to awareness apparel, I began designing pieces to comfort, uplift, and spread a message: You are seen. You are not alone.
️ Watch Rebecca’s Story
I’m honored to share this video of Rebecca—her strength, her truth, and her words. She made this to help others understand Lupus and to raise awareness for those who need it most.
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